{"id":855,"date":"2015-02-24T07:54:37","date_gmt":"2015-02-24T07:54:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/udaypai.in\/staging\/?p=855"},"modified":"2017-01-10T03:22:28","modified_gmt":"2017-01-10T03:22:28","slug":"marriage-compatibility-premarital-counseling-match-making-married-life-and-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/udaypai.in\/staging\/marriage-compatibility-premarital-counseling-match-making-married-life-and-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"Marriage Compatibility, Premarital counseling, Match-making, Married Life and Divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Krishna\"<\/a>Nandini Raj from Palakkad asked me a question: “How come there is no story in any Puranas about ideal husband? No wonder, many men don’t know how to be a husband, let alone an ideal one!!!”<\/p>\n

Vineeth Sharma from San Jose: “In Indian culture there is no pre-marriage and post marriage counseling. Such counseling is now compulsory in many developed countries and in many other religions and cultures. Uday, see the alarming rate of increasing divorces in India.”<\/p>\n

Neethu Thomas from Delhi: “India still is far behind when it comes to women empowerment and supporting prestige of women. From ancient times Indian husbands think wives are just slaves to serve them and their families.”<\/p>\n

I get much more such questions – mostly related to marriage and family life – the problems and challenges they face. I am not a professional counselor – but let me share what I have learned from my ancestors.<\/p>\n

Ask your grandparents – probably they would know. People were reading Srimad Bhagavatam at home. It is a very simple story telling book.Please continue reading at https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/dp\/B01N9PAGLT <\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Nandini Raj from Palakkad asked me a question: “How come there is no story in any Puranas about ideal husband? No wonder, many men don’t know how to be a husband, let alone an ideal one!!!” Vineeth Sharma from San Jose: “In Indian culture there is no pre-marriage and post marriage counseling. Such counseling is […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[20,24,16],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-855","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-love","7":"category-relationship","8":"category-wellness"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/udaypai.in\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/855","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/udaypai.in\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/udaypai.in\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/udaypai.in\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/udaypai.in\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=855"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/udaypai.in\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/855\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/udaypai.in\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=855"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/udaypai.in\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=855"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/udaypai.in\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=855"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}