Marriage Compatibility, Premarital counseling, Match-making, Married Life and Divorce

KrishnaNandini Raj from Palakkad asked me a question: “How come there is no story in any Puranas about ideal husband? No wonder, many men don’t know how to be a husband, let alone an ideal one!!!”

Vineeth Sharma from San Jose: “In Indian culture there is no pre-marriage and post marriage counseling. Such counseling is now compulsory in many developed countries and in many other religions and cultures. Uday, see the alarming rate of increasing divorces in India.”

Neethu Thomas from Delhi: “India still is far behind when it comes to women empowerment and supporting prestige of women. From ancient times Indian husbands think wives are just slaves to serve them and their families.”

I get much more such questions – mostly related to marriage and family life – the problems and challenges they face. I am not a professional counselor – but let me share what I have learned from my ancestors.

Ask your grandparents – probably they would know. People were reading Srimad Bhagavatam at home. It is a very simple story telling book.Please continue reading at

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5 Responses

  1. sampuran says:



    Respected Uday Sir! heartiest namaskar unto you for doing this great job of creating awareness.
    Sir! please write about pros and cons of masturbation.Today lot of youngsters are doing this.

  3. sowmya says:

    So true… U have pinpointed perfectly… Especially I like the last paragraph.. How true it is.. Just wondering if at all the Indian culture will have it’s place again… But Kaliyug has to end.. So all these will happen for sure..There are more to see.. This is just the beginning.. This body won’t be alive to see the end of this yug..Our future generations gonna experience a lot. Everything happens according to the plan of God… Let the world come to an end soon and new era begin…

  4. Sushmita says:

    Dear Uday Jim
    Excellent article. You are vrry true.

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